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Get Back Your Ex As A Result Of Becoming Less Attainable And An Increased Challenge To Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she was irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am about to make a wild guess here, and yet could it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that now, you are zero challenge for her? And also that she believes if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to develop into a challenge once again you must demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Consider what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. After which think of what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You're indicating to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other sexual alternatives.
She won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Fortunately you are doing that now by not specifically interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
You should definitely stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued approval of power over you while providing her a handy justification to stay broken up. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any remorse she may experience.)
On the other hand, you should definitely keep her locked in with your stuff. Most likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She might request a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it back.
The best response to this is "No, not yet. The reason is simply because her possessing your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you have to completely acknowledge -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a fantastic chance to transform your life which will eventually allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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